Melissa L. Atkinson
Hard Wig,
Soft Life
Hard Wig, Soft Life is for women who've carried everything for everyone--and are finally ready to put some of it down
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I'm stubbornly resilient
I've been knocked down more times than I can count. From feeling like a grown-up at 11, to navigating the military, to rebuilding after a felony charge that flipped my life upside down—I've learned that my superpower is refusing to stay down. Sometimes this stubbornness is to my own detriment (the Lord is not through with me yet!), but I'm a work in progress. My edges might be struggling, but I'm still showing up.
3 FACTUAL FACTS ABOUT MELISSA
The Tea On Me
01.
I believe in radical vulnerability
The moment I called my now-husband and told him I couldn't afford to get my hair done but still wanted to see him? That changed everything. Vulnerability is not my strong suit—not by a long shot—and it's still not easy for me. But I've learned that the moments when you're most afraid to be seen are exactly when you need to let someone in. Sometimes your most tattered weave leads to your most treasured connection. Letting my guard down has made my life so much better, even when it feels impossible.
03.
I’m done with survival mode
For too long, I lived like tomorrow wasn't promised—because honestly, it didn't feel like it was. Now I'm practicing the art of actually living instead of just making it through. My definition of success isn't about the hustle anymore; it's about finding peace in a world that keeps trying to sell us chaos. And I'm here to tell you that you deserve that peace too—right now, no application required.
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